Suffering. Your mind likes it. Everywhere you look, you see things that shouldn’t happen. “I shouldn’t have to wait for my food. I shouldn’t be at work today. That girl should have fallen in love with me by now.” At times, we feel we’ve earned the right to whine about certain things (like those jerks […]
Habit is self reinforcing. To break it, you must overcome its inertia. Willpower can do this when applied correctly. But most people get poor results because they try to force change. This is a common misconception of willpower. You think you need to pick a fight with yourself. To use gusto! And initially it feels […]
Attracting women probably doesn’t make sense to you. It doesn’t for most men. Instead, you chase. At the bar, the gym, the office, you’re chasing women for their attention. The female is the prize and must be won with your time, money and effort. But chasing her is a poor investment. You’ll spend way too […]