Conscious Growth.com

July 20th, 2007

When interacting with women, it’s good to be light-hearted and playful. Teasing breaks through any mental barriers and lets you develop a fun, care-free relationship. The idea is to create an enjoyable moment with someone and perhaps spark a little attraction.

When you get the mindset, it will flow out effortlessly. Until then, ask yourself the following questions… What is really hilarious or ridiculous here? How can I twist or misinterpret what they said in a funny way? How can I bring ease and playfulness to this moment? How can I totally bust on this person? What is an obvious truth that would be funny to mention?

Benefits of Teasing and Playfulness

Closer Relationships - Teasing creates an unconscious bond of familiarity. By teasing someone, you imply closeness with that person.

Amazing Experiences - A playful mindset can be a great source of fun and excitement. Even when things don’t work out, it’s something to laugh at.

Personal Growth - Playfulness helps you let go of insecurities by poking fun at them. Humor is a great way to heal your wounds because it breaks through the seriousness of your mind.

Attractive to Women - Apply this attitude with women is like fishing with dynamite. Like Marylin Monroe said, “If you an make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything.”

In the Moment

Teasing and being playful can be applied to any relationship. In a general sense, it promotes closeness and trust. Since this article is specific to women, here are some examples:

Walking with Her

• Step on her shoelace
• Lightly push her into shrubs or oncoming traffic
• Walk in front of her and then slow down
• Bump her with your butt or lightly kick her

Play Silly Games

• Play patty-cake, peek-a-boo, thumb-war, or slap-jack
• Lock her out of the car or house
• Mimic her actions

Situations

• If a creepy guy comes up and hits on her: 1) Say… wow, you’re boyfriend seems nice or 2) Wow, he’s perfect for you. I’m going to call him back and have him sit down with us.
• If she trips or goofs or something: 1) Say to the nearest person, “Do you know her? I don’t.” or 2) Cough… You’re a hugh dork… cough

She Complains

• Agree with her but be overly dramatic
• Ask her… how do you REALLY feel
• Smile… and do more of what she complains about

Random

• Call her bro, man, stud, hoss, dude, anything masculine
• When a problem happens, blame her. “Oh no… what did you do?!”
• Accuse her of having bad motives: 1) Ah.. so I’m just another bank account eh? or 2) You know, I’m not just a pretty face. I have feelings too. or 3) Ah… Where’s your whip you slave driver?

Make the Internal Shift.

Playfulness is about intention. When you are comfortable and relaxed, it happens on its own. Obviously, these actions are hurtful when used poorly. So know when to tease. Balance your efforts with plenty of emotional deposits as well. Keep things light-hearted and you’ll improve. Succeed or fail, it will be something to laugh at.

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